Online dictionaries (dict.cc, Pons) list some possible translations. In Leo's forum you find some more examples. Here's a selection:
- to be ashamed for someone LEO
- to feel embarrassed for sb. else DICT.CC
- vicarious embarrassment
- to be ashamed for someone
- to feel embarrassed for somebody else
- vicarious embarrassment
Note the definition of vicarious:
vicarious: felt or experienced by watching or reading about somebody else doing something, rather than by doing it yourself
I don't know about the existencehow it is used outside of that somewhere elsethe German speaking area, but I think that's off-topic here anyway. Though, a fewsome people here may tell you more about that (hopefully in comments) but that's not a question about German Language.
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Haven't carefullyI haven't really read this article, but I think here areit contains some more ideas (all words that I pick from the article)good translations or phrases:
- cringe-inducing
- well and truly embarrassed for him/her
- displaced embarrassment
- sympathetic wince
MaybeI guess there are even more words, and maybe they don't reallyprobably not all of them will fit in your context, but I thinkgenerally speaking they all work for the idea, in general.