Concentrate on the verbs. Each verb has its own way of expressing the various "participants", as nominative subject, as accusative or dative (or even genitive, mostly outdated) objects, or as prepositional phrases. (And a dative object has nothing to do with a preposition + dative phrase - it's just a coincidence that it evolved that way.)
Though there are some common patterns that apply to many verbs, this can be very misleading for others. So, better treat "definitions" (like the one you mentioned) as rules of thumb that explain some common cases, but inevitably fail in others.
I'd recommend to learn verbs by complete sentences with subject, objects and prepositional phrases, so your brain has a chance to use its really powerful pattern-recognition capability.
If you encounter a new verb, all the "rules" will not guarantee that you use it correctly. Especially, it's close to impossible to get the prepositional phrases right just from the verb's meaning alone. (For accusative and dative objects, the chances are better, but still far from perfect.)